Hey guys, it's been a while since I put up any post.....errr I'm sorry about that 😀 . Ok I'm back now and trust me I'll definitely be consistent this time. I am working on a few things for the blog, I'ld love to tell you about them but I think showing you would be better ;).
Ok, so right now I'm talking about "Being with YOU".....no....no it's not a post about love or anything like that.....errr ok it is.....it's about loving YOURSELF 😀 what else do I talk about?? Lool.
I talked about dating yourself a while back, about finding out who you are, this time I'm talking about dating yourself and being alone without being lonely.
I have met a lot of people who have never really been alone with just themselves before, not just being single from romantic relationships but from platonic relationships too. Basically, I've gone through stages when I hopped for people (friends) to people, using new faces to replace old faces because at that point I believed that you cannot really be happy on your own....until I took some alone time and realized that I was wrong.
Being on your will teach you a lot and also give you a new look on happiness, if you take out time to know yourself, your change and growth will not be a surprise.... Being alone doesn't always have to feel like you are lonely.
I always tell people to take out time to get to know themselves, figure out what they are into and how they handle situations. Being on your own sometimes will give you the opportunity to make decisions....and mistakes too, it gives you the opportunity to define yourself . Imagine being in a tight situation and asking yourself "what should I do?", not "OMG I should call this person". There's also a beautiful self confidence that comes with being comfortable in just your company, enjoying your own silence once in a while....admiring yourself when you reflect on what is going on with you. It's about training yourself to enjoy yourself and when you do...when you really understand that you are "the shit" , whenever you go out it'll show.
The most beautiful part about being in your own is the happiness that it brings, it's beautiful when people make you happy and when you make other people happy but it moves from happiness to JOY when you know that your smile and laughter isn't directly connected to anybody...that it's all you. You'll learn to be happy while you work on yourself because you see the uniqueness in your flaws.
Having people around is great, but make sure that when they leave your smile does not leave with them. People will leave, they'll change...that's how life is meant to be, the point of getting to know yourself is that it gives you somebody to always count on and that stabilizes you on my soooo many levels.
So take out time, meet and get to know yourself, some alone time can help make things clear for you, understand why you are where you are and why you have the people in your life , learn to take your own advice and once in a while remind yourself that you are the shit ;).Don't forget to share, subscribe, +1 and all that good stuff.
See you soon,**Auneetuh **
Ok, so right now I'm talking about "Being with YOU".....no....no it's not a post about love or anything like that.....errr ok it is.....it's about loving YOURSELF 😀 what else do I talk about?? Lool.
I talked about dating yourself a while back, about finding out who you are, this time I'm talking about dating yourself and being alone without being lonely.
I have met a lot of people who have never really been alone with just themselves before, not just being single from romantic relationships but from platonic relationships too. Basically, I've gone through stages when I hopped for people (friends) to people, using new faces to replace old faces because at that point I believed that you cannot really be happy on your own....until I took some alone time and realized that I was wrong.
Being on your will teach you a lot and also give you a new look on happiness, if you take out time to know yourself, your change and growth will not be a surprise.... Being alone doesn't always have to feel like you are lonely.
I always tell people to take out time to get to know themselves, figure out what they are into and how they handle situations. Being on your own sometimes will give you the opportunity to make decisions....and mistakes too, it gives you the opportunity to define yourself . Imagine being in a tight situation and asking yourself "what should I do?", not "OMG I should call this person". There's also a beautiful self confidence that comes with being comfortable in just your company, enjoying your own silence once in a while....admiring yourself when you reflect on what is going on with you. It's about training yourself to enjoy yourself and when you do...when you really understand that you are "the shit" , whenever you go out it'll show.
The most beautiful part about being in your own is the happiness that it brings, it's beautiful when people make you happy and when you make other people happy but it moves from happiness to JOY when you know that your smile and laughter isn't directly connected to anybody...that it's all you. You'll learn to be happy while you work on yourself because you see the uniqueness in your flaws.
Having people around is great, but make sure that when they leave your smile does not leave with them. People will leave, they'll change...that's how life is meant to be, the point of getting to know yourself is that it gives you somebody to always count on and that stabilizes you on my soooo many levels.
So take out time, meet and get to know yourself, some alone time can help make things clear for you, understand why you are where you are and why you have the people in your life , learn to take your own advice and once in a while remind yourself that you are the shit ;).Don't forget to share, subscribe, +1 and all that good stuff.
See you soon,**Auneetuh **
